Older adult life can be a different experience for LGBTQ+ people compared to their heterosexual peers. Many rainbow elders have lived through a time of significant prejudice and discrimination. This can lead to social isolation and a hesitance to seek out elder care services due to fear of being unwelcome or misunderstood.
The rainbow world has come a long way since Antinous and Thomas Cannon, as well as Stonewall and Harvey Milk. But today, the ripple effect of oppression and repression is still felt. Having overcome past challenges can make rainbow older adults more resourceful and adaptable.
This article outlines the issues that queer older adults might face. If you’re reading this and feeling validated, then know you’re not alone. If all of this article’s contents are news to you then do support the ageing rainbow people in your life and do your best to show support and provide safe spaces.
Loneliness
Loneliness and social isolation can have serious impacts on mental and physical health, leading to increased risk of depression, anxiety, and other health problems.
Due to strained relationships with biological families, LGBTQ+ older adults often develop strong bonds with chosen families of friends and partners. These chosen families can provide vital social support and community.
Ageing often brings about changes in social relationships and support networks. For the rainbow community, these changes can be particularly pronounced. Many in this community may have faced rejection and isolation at various points in their lives, and these experiences can intensify as they age.
Discrimination
Discrimination throughout their lives can lead to lower earning potential and difficulty saving for retirement. Additionally, a lack of legal protections like marriage equality in the past might have limited access to spousal benefits.
The lack of inclusive services and policies for ageing rainbow folks is a big hurdle. Many retirement homes, nursing facilities, and other aged care services are not designed with the needs of LGBTQIA+ individuals in mind. This lack of inclusivity can lead to feelings of exclusion and marginalisation, further compounding the challenges of ageing.
Health Disparities
Experiences with discrimination can make LGBTQ+ older adults less likely to seek preventive healthcare or disclose their sexual orientation or gender identity to medical professionals, potentially leading to poorer health outcomes.
Despite the advancements in medical technology and healthcare services, many LGBTQIA+ individuals still face significant barriers to accessing appropriate and respectful care. This is often due to discrimination, stigma, and lack of understanding of the unique health needs of this community.
A Bright Future
The LGBTQ+ community is known for its activism and strong sense of community. LGBTQ+ older adults can find support groups and social events specifically designed for them.
The later years can be a time of vulnerability for LGBTQ+ older adults, but it’s also a time to leverage their strength and resilience. With increased awareness and growing support services, their future can be brighter.